B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u01b0 “C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ee9c l\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1ea1i t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh\u2026 T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf,” ho\u1eb7c “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 thi\u1ebfu \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i l\u00e2u n\u0103m, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec l\u1ea1i m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng,” ho\u1eb7c “Ng\u00e0y mai t\u00f4i c\u00f3 k\u1ef3 thi nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi tham d\u1ef1 b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111i nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n n\u00ean c\u00f3 l\u1ebd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i.” C\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a m\u1ed9t trong hai ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang, \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 may m\u1eafn. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn sai l\u1ea7m th\u00ec sao? Kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh dung r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh, “Gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u1ec9?” \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng “H\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c khi b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00e1c \u0111i, t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.” Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai \u0111i\u1ec1u trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i. Kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0, th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129, “Gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 h\u1ed3i c\u00f2n l\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u01a1n.” H\u1ecd h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd n\u00ean l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t m\u00e0 c\u00e3i nhau l\u1edbn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 quen bi\u1ebft h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c n\u0103m, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi nhau. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u h\u1ecd c\u00f3 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc kh\u00f4ng, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi “C\u00f3.” H\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m v\u00e0 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, c\u1ea3 hai lo\u1ea1i h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
L\u00fd do l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua c\u1ea3 “h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m” v\u00e0 “h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m.” H\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 do t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng suy ngh\u0129 k\u1ef9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecdn tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o. H\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 do t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc gi\u1eefa ch\u1eebng. Ngay c\u1ea3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, m\u1ed7i khi nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 qua kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec. Do \u0111\u00f3, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 n\u00ean l\u00e0m hay kh\u00f4ng, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c hay t\u1eeb b\u1ecf. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh, thay v\u00ec ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i “Gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m (ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m) nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf,” b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o kh\u00f4ng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i ch\u00fang. Sau nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ng\u00e0y nay t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. T\u00f4i khuy\u00ean m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u01b0 “C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ee9c l\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1ea1i t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh\u2026 T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_locale":"vi","_original_post":"https:\/\/www.sis-ac.com\/?p=70376","footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-70382","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","vi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sis-ac.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70382","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sis-ac.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sis-ac.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sis-ac.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sis-ac.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=70382"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.sis-ac.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70382\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":70383,"href":"https:\/\/www.sis-ac.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70382\/revisions\/70383"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sis-ac.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=70382"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sis-ac.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=70382"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sis-ac.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=70382"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}